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Tuesday, December 4, 2012

All Better

This is kind of old news now, but I wanted to put these pictures in just so I have them somewhere more permanent than my camera.

The week before Halloween I was standing at the stove cooking dinner when I heard a thud behind me. I turned out to discover that Nathan had climbed up on a step stool and then proceeded to fall off. Apparently he put his hands out to catch himself because he started to scream and hold onto his right wrist, which immediately swelled up and turned red -- clearly not the usual fall-down-and-get-right-back-up-and-go-play. Luckily, a friend in our ward happens to be a physicians assistant at the only hand clinic in the area and he told us to bring Nathan right over and he would have a look. He confirmed that Nathan's wrist was broken and happened to have the materials on hand to make a splint just Nathan's size to stabilize it until we could take him to our doctor the next morning.
The x-rays showed that both bones in his forearm were broken at the wrist -- poor little guy! So Dr. Holmes (Oh, how we love Dr. Holmes!) put a cast on and all was well.
But wait! The store doesn't end there! Almost exactly two weeks later while I was gone getting my hair cut, Quinn was cooking dinner and the kids were sitting on chairs in the dining room watching Doc McStuffins on Quinn's laptop. Quinn looked over just in time to see Nathan stand up on his chair, inexplicably put one leg over the arm, and topple off the side. Again: scream, grab other wrist. This time Quinn went ahead and just took him to urgent care, and sure enough his left wrist was broken and they put it in a splint.
The next morning, back at Dr. Holmes' office as he was putting a cast on Nathan's other arm, he said, "It's a good thing I know and love you guys and I don't have to call CPS. You're probably lucky that the urgent care staff didn't call CPS. I had a patient who was holding her baby and accidentally fell down the stairs with him and broke his femur. When they took him to the ER the Dr. called CPS because he thought she was lying about the fall and that it was really a case of child abuse, so they took the baby away from her and it took her almost a year to get him back." Um....freak me out!!!
So here is Nathan with both his little arms in casts.


Luckily, kids heal super fast and he was able to get both casts off after just a few weeks, which made bath time, meal time, and play time a LOT easier. On the other hand, the second he got those babies off he was looking for new things to climb up on, as you can see from the picture.


So I'm learning -- boys (at least my Nathan) are a little more reckless than girls (at least my Caitlyn, who was always pretty careful even though she loved to play and run and jump and climb as much as the next kid). And now I'm paranoid because I'm so worried that he's going to embark on some new adventure that will result in another broken bone, and this time someone's going to call CPS for sure and he'll be taken away from me for a year!!!

Ah, parenthood.

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Gentleman Conference

I know this post is super late, but at least I'm getting it in during the same month as General Conference, right? Or, as Caitlyn calls it, "Gentleman Conference." :)
A few weeks before Conference weekend, a sister in our ward gave a talk about preparing for Stake and General Conference and gave some really great, practical tips for making it a special weekend that your whole family looks forward to. I loved her ideas! And Caitlyn is old enough now that I can do fun things that she really enjoys and appreciates. So I got online and found printable coloring pages, crafts, and other ideas for during the sessions. Here are a few pics of some of the things we did:

A "Conference Tree"


Caitlyn LOVED finding the picture of the person speaking and gluing it to the leaf after I had cut the picture out. I used Conference Bingo printouts I found for the little topic squares.


So now every week for Family Home Evening, whoever's turn it is to give the lesson chooses a leaf from the Conference Tree and bases their lesson on that talk. It's so nice to have a built in FHE lesson plan for the next few months!


We also a had hidden "Musical Treat Bag" for Caitlyn and Nathan to run around the house and find during the songs. I did this because I liked the idea of having special treats (fun food makes anything special), but I didn't like the idea of just having a whole table full of food sitting there the whole time during Conference for us all to pig out on and feel stuffed and groggy afterward. So we just did simple little treats, like a lolli pop for each person, or a little snackbag of cheerios and mini-marshmallows. Simple, but the kids thought it was amazing! :)


After the Saturday p.m. session and before Quinn went to the Priesthood session, we had a treasure hunt and the treasure was homemade oreo ice cream shakes. While we ate our shakes we looked at all the leaves we'd made from the day's talks and talked about things that stood out to us. Then we did the same thing over dinner on Sunday evening.

It made for a really successful and meaningful Conference weekend! And for a couple weeks afterward Caitlyn kept asking, "Can we have Gentleman Conference today?" So hopefully we are starting a family tradition of making Conference something our whole family loves and looks forward to.


Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Foreign Policy and the Upcoming Election


Let me start by saying I have never posted anything political on our blog before. But then, I've sort of turned a blind eye to politics in general before this election because I had no hope in American politics, so why follow it or care about it when there's nothing I can do that has any affect on it? It's just frustrating. 
Enter Mitt Romney. I was skeptical at first. But now for the first time in my voting-age life I am excited to vote! Because I've come to feel like there is finally someone to vote for who will lead our nation with integrity and who not only has good intentions but also proven abilities that can lift us out of economic crisis. For me, that's something worth feeling hopeful about.



But the debate last night left me feeling worried. Obama's rhetoric was compelling and persuasive. I've traveled enough internationally to know that much of the world dislikes America at best, wants to destroy us at worst. So doesn't Obama's approach -- apology for instances of bossing other countries around, mutual respect, mutual interest, and a softer, outstretched hand -- seem like the best foreign policy? I kind of thought it did. But the significant other in my life reminded me that those things usually only work if the person/country you're extending them to actually shares mutual interests and goals...you know, like peace, goodwill, etc. If on the other hand the other person/country involved is motivated by greed, hatred, lust for power, etc., your approach isn't likely to bring about the results you intended.

Then today I saw an article from Foreign Policy that confirmed this. And by the way, Kiron Skinner is not some random person. She's a pretty darn educated expert in foreign relations. Have a one-second glance at her bio and you'll see what I mean: http://www.hoover.org/fellows/9774Really, I'm serious. Just check out her bio really quick. 

So here is her article below. It looks long but it's a quick read. 

I'm sure some of you may disagree with the thoughts I've expressed. Feel free to offer thoughtful, well-reasoned arguments to contradict my sentiments. But I'm hoping no one will feel the need to respond with nasty or sarcastic comments. Thanks!

Foreign Policy
Kiron Skinner
October 22, 2012 @ 4:19 PM   

I am supporting Governor Mitt Romney for president in no small part because of the state of the world and the role of the United States in it. While pundits will spend the next few days slicing and dicing the Romney-Obama foreign policy debate, I would like to turn attention to the wider world of U.S. foreign policy.

Senator Barack Obama assumed the presidency with high hopes about his ability to reshape U.S. foreign policy. Indeed, he campaigned on that pledge. He spoke of a "new beginning" in America's relations with other countries, based upon "mutual interest" and "mutual respect." That declaration was, of course, an implicit rebuke of all his predecessors, who presumably failed to observe such niceties. By loudly professing America's -- and his own personal good will -- President Obama believed he would begin to "eradicate years of mistrust" and move the world in directions favorable to the United States.

But that has not happened. The years which have followed have not been kind to the theory of international relations rooted in naïve idealism. The "outstretched hand" he extended to country after country was met with indifference at best, and abuse at worst. Instead of extending America's influence, our standing and power were diminished around the world.

Look at relations with Russia. The president began this policy by making unilateral concessions to our former Cold War adversary on missile defense, undercutting some of our East European allies -- notably, Poland and the Czech Republic -- along the way. He signed an arms control agreement with Moscow that called for cuts in U.S. strategic forces while leaving Russia with a ceiling for the same weapons above what it possessed at the time. None of these overtures and policies accomplished what President Obama hoped. In return, Russia continued to vote against us on critical resolutions at the United Nations, while hurling contemptuous words in our direction.

And then there is China. President Obama came into office hoping for a significant improvement in relations with Beijing. He sent Secretary of State Hillary Clinton to China, where she helpfully explained to her hosts that henceforth the United States would not permit our differences over human rights to "interfere" with joint efforts to deal with "the global economic crisis, the global climate change crisis and the security crisis." What did this olive branch achieve? Not only has China continued its predatory economic policies involving currency manipulation, the theft of intellectual property, and cyber-piracy, but it has begun to behave far more aggressively in its own neighborhood. The Obama administration was itself forced to recognize that its policy failed when it announced the "pivot" of U.S. forces to Asia. Should the United States pivot to Asia while key parts of the Middle East are up in flames? Furthermore, what signal is being sent to China by the Obama administration's advocacy of radical cuts in defense spending? Relabeling the pivot as the Asia "rebalance" misses the point.

Iran too offers a disturbing lesson. President Obama came into office urging a policy of "engagement" with the ayatollahs. By showing our good faith and readiness to negotiate, he aimed to sway them from their path of acquiring nuclear weapons. It was the hopes he invested in engagement that led him to one of the most shameful recent episodes in U.S. foreign policy. Thus, in 2009, when protesters took to the streets of Iran's cities to demonstrate against their country's stolen election, the administration remained silent. President Obama said he did not want to "meddle." In short order, the Iranian protesters were crushed. By failing to offer moral support to those seeking peaceful change in Iran, America retreated from our own principles. A chance to weaken or dislodge Iran's vicious Islamic dictatorship was lost, perhaps for a generation. Meanwhile, Iran has accelerated its nuclear program. President Obama's policies have failed in their central objective, and the Middle East draws closer to a nuclear capability that will spark a regional arms race, raise the specter of nuclear terrorism, and destabilize the region.

Indeed, if one looks across the map of the broader Middle East, one can see that America's standing in the region has fallen precipitously over the past four years. It is obvious that not all of the setbacks can be laid at the president's doorstep. But the administration has been at the mercy of events, watching from the sidelines as tens of thousands of civilians are dying in Syria even as Iran delivers weapons to its client in Damascus using Iraqi airspace. Relations with Egypt remain fraught with confusion and distrust, and Israel has mounting worries about the future of all of its neighbors, not to mention Iran. This is truly a dangerous time and the Obama administration seems sadly absent from the scene.

The attack against our consulate in Benghazi and the murder of our ambassador to Libya are an especially tragic part of this picture of chaos. The administration has spent weeks now spinning a tangled tale regarding the adequacy of the security measures it had in place and the zigzags of its post-attack response. After weeks of denying that it was a terrorist attack, the Obama administration shifted course and began to acknowledge what was obvious. The disarray here is symptomatic of the deeper ailments afflicting the president's foreign policy.

The past four years have given voters ample time to become acquainted with President Barack Obama's foreign policy vision. And they have given voters a significant foreign policy record to appraise. However one judges the president's performance in the foreign policy debate in Boca Raton, he cannot escape a deeply troubling record in international affairs.

America needs a return to the foreign policy consensus of the mid-twentieth century.. That consensus allowed the country to mobilize its resources and combat the Soviet threat. The United States shaped the future then, and it can do so again. That is what our allies want from us and it is what our adversaries fear. That's the vision of Governor Mitt Romney, which has drawn my support.

Thursday, October 4, 2012

A New Little Guy

Nope, he's not here yet. BUT, we've got a new little guy coming to join our family somewhere around March 3, 2013! I wasn't expecting to find out the gender at my appointment last week, so I made chocolate covered pretzels in the appropriate color to surprise Quinn and the kids with the news!





Nathan looks a little unsure about the whole thing, but I think we're all excited to welcome a new friend. :)

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Birthday Season

Summer is birthday season around here, with Nathan in June and Caitlyn in August. We were visiting my parents in July so we had a little combined family party for both of them, which was fun. Caitlyn wanted a ladybug cake and I wanted to make a puppy cake for Nathan since he loves dogs (I'm pretty sure his first word was "Dah!" for dog). I found a picture of a ladybug cake online that I liked, but I was having trouble deciding how to make a dog cake -- the pics online either looked too complicated or I didn't think they were very cute. Luckily, my mom was there to consult with and between the two of us we came up with a plan.

Here were the results.



As on Caitlyn's first birthday, I did a homemade carrot cake for Nathan and used whipped cream with a little bit of powdered sugar in an effort to not overload his little system with so much sugar on his first introduction to sweets. We opened presents and played with them and had lots of fun.

I thought that would be good for birthday season. But then...we went to a birthday party at a pool for one of Caitlyn's little friends in our ward. And every single day without fail after that, Caitlyn talked about how on her birthday she was going to have a party at our pool with a caterpillar cake (?). She even made a new friend at the library one day and told her all about it. I didn't have the heart to not have a party for her after all this anticipation she was creating for herself. But I also didn't have the energy to throw an enormous bash. The solution? I invited just four families, the parents of which Quinn and I are good friends with and the kids of which Caitlyn is good friends with. We met at our complex's pool at 10:30am, had cupcakes (in caterpillar cake form), played pin-the-tail-on-the-donkey, opened presents, chatted, swam, gave out party favors, and had a great time. Not too huge of an undertaking, but still a lot of fun. Making the cake was really the only time-consuming part. Here are some pics.




 

Happy Birthday to our two little stinkers, and thank you so much to all our family and friends who were so thoughtful to send/bring cards and gifts. We love you all!

Sunday, June 10, 2012

Favorite recent Caitlyn quotes

Yesterday we were driving past a college campus. Caitlyn asked, "Is this a work?" (as in, a work place like where Daddy works). I said, "Nope, this is a school." "Oh." Caitlyn replied. Then after a few seconds she asked, "Is this where kids go to get a brain?" :)

Last night I was very tired by the time I was putting Caitlyn to bed. As I started reading her first bedtime story I was kind of reading it just monotone and fast to get it over with. Caitlyn sat up and put her face close to mine, rubbed my cheek comforting-ly and said in a mother-ish tone, "Are you getting fussy Mommy?"

On Friday Caitlyn and Nathan were out on the balcony playing. She was pretending he was her puppy, patting his head, calling him to come to her, etc. As he was coming in through the balcony door he spotted some little speck and decided to put it in his mouth (a frequent occurrence at our house). I, of course, reached out quickly to stop him and said, "No, no, buddy, we're not gonna put that in our mouth." and then picked him up with an affectionate hug and said, "Stinker!" Caitlyn, watching this chain of events, said with resignation, "Well...(sigh), my puppy is a stinker."

Thursday when Quinn got home from work we all went to the park to let the kids play. By way of background to this quote, Quinn often takes Caitlyn on Daddy-daughter dates, something she totally loves. And then the other day when I took her to the grocery store with me while Quinn stayed home with Nathan, I said to her, "This is fun being on a Mommy-daughter date with you Cait!" So after we'd all gone to the park and were driving home Caitlyn said, "This is a Daddy-daughter-Mommy date!" And then remembering she'd left a member of our party out, corrected herself and said, "A Nathan-Daddy-daughter-Mommy date!"

Love that girl.

And love that boy.


Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Out of the mouths of babes

This morning Caitlyn and Nathan woke up at 5:30am. (I know, for some of you that's not that early, but for us it's at least an hour too early.) Well, I don't actually know who woke up the other one, I heard Nathan crying and went in to find Caitlyn in his crib "comforting" him. Aaaand Caitlyn wasn't the least bit interested in going back to sleep which meant Nathan didn't get to either since I was trying to keep them in their bedroom so Quinn could keep sleeping and get a good night's rest before long day of work.
Unfortunately, I was a tad grumpy by the time Quinn came in and found us all at 6:45, and I couldn't manage to snap out of my grumpiness for a little while. Later this afternoon we pulled into the library parking lot. (p.s. Is anyone else in love with the library? It's one of our favorite outings and we never get tired of bringing home new children's books and kids DVDs.) Before I loaded everybody out I turned around in my seat to look at Caitlyn and said, "Caitlyn, I'm really sorry I was so grumpy earlier today." "I'll forgive you this time." she replied. "Thanks Cait, I'll try to do better ok?" Then she looked me square in the eye and said, "Mommy, Jesus will help you do better." Touched, I thanked her and told her I knew that was true. I told her I would be sure to pray and ask Him to help me. Sometimes I think...no, actually I pretty much always know which of the two of us is the wiser.

Friday, March 30, 2012

A Plethora of Posts

10 points if you can name that movie (hint: the real line is a plethora of pinatas). The real reason for my recent, sudden outpouring of posts is that my parents have been in Thailand for the last month (lucky ducks) and my mom emailed to hint that it would be really nice to see what the kids are doing now. So, recognizing that I have been super lousy at posting lately, I spent most of an afternoon neglecting my kids so I could blog about them. Whaddya do.

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Movin'

I wondered if developmental milestones would lose their novelty after the first child. Nope! I LOVED watching Nathan learn to sit up by himself, then get onto all fours, then do belly flops trying to reach what he was after, then crawl backward (much to his frustration -- "Why am I moving farther away from my object?? Whhaaaaa!!!").


And finally crawl forward.



This kid is a mover and a shaker people! I never had to baby-proof too much with Caitlyn because she was happy to sit in a pile of books and read or play with her toys or watch Baby Signing Time. Nathan? Not so much. He's only been crawling for a week and he already crawls around the house as fast as he can go finding (what I am convinced is) anything that looks like he probably shouldn't play with it. You know...toilet bowl brush, garbage can, fire place, cords, plugs, tiny pieces of dirt and paper and who-knows-what-else to put in his mouth.... Keeps us on our toes!

He also did a funny bear crawl whenever on a hard surface when he first started crawling.


Funny boy. :) Love that kid so much.

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Sneakin'

After a lovely midday jog today with the kids in the double jogger, I came home, put a movie on for Caitlyn, and buckled Nathan into a bouncer in the bathroom with me so I could take a shower. I came out a few minutes later and walked over to the couch to check on Caitlyn...who was not there. I looked in her room. Not there. I looked in every other room of the house. Not there. Now I'm starting to panic. Did she open the front door and go exploring outside? Did someone break in and kidnap her? So I started calling her name more loudly and, to my relief, I heard her voice--but it was muffled. "Where are you?" I called. A very obstinate voice, coming from the front hall closet, commanded, "DON'T FIND ME MOMMY." So of course I ran to the closet as fast as could and found this little stinker.


Oh don't you worry, she had nabbed the homemade biter biscuits I made for Nathan last night and eaten almost the entire tupperware full! I guess I should just be happy that they both liked them?

Is it normal for a kid to be this sneaky at age 2 or should I be concerned for my child's future?

Is it parental negligence to shower while your 2-year-old watches a movie? Apparently so. I'm obviously going to have to figure out a new plan for jogging and showering. One that involves Quinn being home.

Talkin'

Caitlyn talks. A lot. I mean a lot a lot. It's actually really fun. I can reason with her about most things now and have logical, interesting conversations with her on a wide range of topics. Sometimes it's tricky though because she's not satisfied with simple explanations that usually work on toddlers and you also have to watch what you say and do because she has a way of repeating your sentiments or describing your behavior in full detail just when you least want her to.
Nathan appears to be headed down the same path. He loves to mimic sounds we make or our tone of voice. This is from a couple months ago, but here's a sample of his baby talk:



One of my favorite things is what I call his "viking roar". Sorry I'm super loud in the phone on this video.


Swingin'

One of the (many) amazing things about living in San Diego is that pretty much all winter long the weather is like this:


You've got your rainy, chilly days in there, but for the most part every day is a perfect park day. Or Sea World day.

Or San Diego Zoo day. 


Or Safari Park day.





I know...tough life. :)

So on one of our outings at the park the other day I put Nathan in a baby swing for the first time. He LOVED it!


It was so fun to see him kicking his legs with a big smile on his face. And so fun to be able to push them both at the same time.


Incidentally, Cait has started letting me do her hair and she actually leaves it in for most of the day rather than ripping it out pronto! She and I were watching hair styling tutorials on YouTube together one day and ever since then she's into having her hair done. Yay! Finally!



Monday, February 20, 2012

I Love Valentines Day...cont.

Last year I did a Valentines Day post about how much I love Valentines Day...and I still do!!! So here's this year's post.

First off, Quinn wins MAJOR points for MAJORLY good gift giving. We don't usually do much gift giving on Valentines, so I was really surprised when he came home with a Bath and Body Works bag full of foot massage stuff. Oh yeah baby!! Whenever my parents come to visit my mom brings her foot massage bag and she and I exchange foot massages. Last time they came I gave Quinn one too and he was sold for life. Plus Caitlyn had a blast rubbing lotion on our feet and feeling super helpful. So he said he thought it was a gift she and I would both enjoy. And he was definitely right!

He gave me a foot massage...


The next night I gave him a foot massage...


And Caitlyn got a double massage. Lucky girl. :-)

For breakfast that morning we had pancakes. My original vision was heart-shaped pancakes but after two flops I defaulted to round pancakes.



For dinner I made smoked gruyere white sauce on bow ties with asparagus and rhodes rolls. I'm not one of those people who are known for being amazing cooks, who never make anything that isn't incredibly delicious, so I feel like it's ok for me to be proud of and announce the fact that this meal was DE. LICIOUS. It turned out super yummy! I was really happy.


Caitlyn and I also did some construction paper Valentines Day crafts and made heart-shaped sugar cookies with pink frosting and sprinkles. Pretty much my favorite treat in the whole world. But I didn't get any pictures.

So we had another great Valentines Day! Hope you all did too!